I know a lot
of women gonna hate it
But somebody's gotta say it
And so I nominated
myself to deliver the news
That it's hard for
a man to choose a lady
That already got a baby
Although his feelings may be strong
Having kids that don't belong to him
Holding on to him
somehow seems wrong to him
Exposing them to a man
who may one day decide
He's tired of the family life
And now he's gotta tell
that little girl a goodbye lie
When he's the only Dad
she's ever had in her life
I don't want to take
that chance please don't take offense
It's just the thought of hurting
somebody that was innocent
She got kids
And I don't know
if I'm ready to give
Them the things
that they need to live
She got kids
And I just want to
make sure this is
More than just some sexual trip
See all I want to do is prevent
those kids from getting hurt again
Most men think it
but they'll never say it
But what if ya'll had another baby
And he's accused of choosing favorites
and they're right
Would he be wrong for loving
his own flesh
and blood a little more
Is he being human
or only being immature
Who's to say
That's why it's better just to wait
Take love day to day
And let love spread
it's own wings
And if it want's to fly away
or if it decides to stay
It won't be because of any unrealistic
expectations ya'll done made
And he won't have to pray
that little girl ain't awake
When he tiptoe out the door
so he won't have to explain
I don't want to take
that chance please don't take offense
I just don't need
that kinda drama on my conscience
Ohhh ooooo
She got kids
And I don't know
if I'm ready to give
Them the things that they need to live
She got kids
And I just
want to make sure this is
More than just some sexual trip
See all I want to do is prevent
those kids from getting hurt again
She got kids
And I don't know